There’s no denying that some of the most captivating and controversial moments unfold during Bravo’s notorious annual weekend extravaganza. And this year is no exception—particularly when it comes to Brittany Cartwright’s candid revelations about her current relationship, or lack thereof, with her former boss and fellow Bravo personality, Lisa Vanderpump. Prepare to be intrigued, because what Brittany shared might just challenge your perceptions of loyalty and fame.
Brittany’s journey with Vanderpump began when she joined SUR as a server during the fifth season of 'Vanderpump Rules' (https://decider.com/show/vanderpump-rules/). Over the years, she appeared consistently up to the eighth season, after which she and her then-husband, Jax Taylor (https://decider.com/tag/jax-taylor/), publicly announced their split and departure from the show.
While Bravo continued to develop the series with new cast members over the subsequent three seasons, they revealed earlier this year that Season 12 would feature an entirely new lineup. During BravoCon, where Vanderpump hosted an early screening of the upcoming Season 12 premiere, Brittany chose to sit this one out—an indication of how her relationship with Lisa Vanderpump has shifted.
In an exclusive chat with Decider earlier today, Brittany explained her stance: "I wish them the best, but Lisa hasn't invited me to any events. She hasn't checked in on me since my divorce or since my son was diagnosed with autism—nothing. I haven’t heard from her in ages."
This sentiment is especially poignant considering Brittany is now the star of her own Bravo spin-off, 'The Valley' (https://decider.com/show/the-valley/). Earlier this year, she publicly shared that her marriage to Jax Taylor ended in 2024 and revealed that her young son, Cruz, now four, was diagnosed with autism. Despite these significant personal milestones, Brittany claims she’s heard nothing from Vanderpump about either event.
"I harbor no ill feelings. It seems she aligns herself with whoever is bringing her financial gain. And right now, that isn’t me," Brittany stated openly. She expressed her disappointment, noting that even after their divorce, she expected some acknowledgment from Lisa, but that hope remains unfulfilled.
Despite her feelings about the current situation, Brittany still maintains admiration for Vanderpump. "I’ve always looked up to her—thought she was incredible, loved what we did together, and genuinely tried to support her and her charity work," she shared. Yet, she emphasized the stark reality: it’s been four years, her son is four, and Vanderpump has never reached out once.
This story raises compelling questions about loyalty, the reality of friendships in the celebrity world, and whether fame can sometimes overshadow genuine human connection. Do you believe Brittany’s perspective is justified? Or do you think there might be context we’re missing? Share your thoughts—because in the world of reality TV and connections that often blur the line between personal and public, opinions are bound to differ. And remember, sometimes the most controversial truths are the ones closest to home.
